Grateful to be Alive
I was on my way home from Kitchener after having a lovely dinner with a friend, and driving on the 401 just past Milton heading back to Toronto. I’m driving in the middle lane when I noticed something in my driver’s side mirror in the passing lane. I see a very fast car that has already descended upon me on my left side. He is blocked by another car while trying to get through in the passing lane. The next thing I know, he is behind me and then on my right side and then in front of me. He tries again to get back in to the passing lane. A few seconds later, his car is hitting mine as he ricochets off another car.
I remember screaming as I did not see it coming and then went unconscious as my car went into a spin. His car went into my side right behind the driver’s seat, so my car spun facing the oncoming traffic and then kept going backwards over to the side of highway. I came to with a voice repeating, “Put your foot on the brake”. In doing so, I stopped the car from going into a field and ended up on the shoulder facing the oncoming traffic.
I sat there looking at all the speeding traffic flying by. A moment later, the same car that had just hit me, came flying off to the shoulder a few yards in front of me. He had lost his bumper but regained control of his car and started speeding toward my car. “What is this guy trying to do, finish me off?” I thought, bracing myself for a front end hit. At the last moment, he veered onto the highway and sped off toward Toronto.
Moments later, several of the witness stopped to see if they could help. A lovely gentleman came to my car door and opened it. He asked if I was OK and all I could say, was that I was in shock. He asked a few questions to determine if I had a concussion or other life threatening injuries. This angel held my hand and allowed me to go through being in a state of shock until the ambulance arrived. Another lovely lady offered me her daughter’s water bottle. This angel also had recorded the license plate of the guy who had sped off and gave it to me on a sheet of paper.
Several witnesses and the ambulance attendant got me from the car into the ambulance; a first for me as I have never been in one before. The attendant was very kind and worked on getting all the vitals read. The OPP stuck his head into the ambulance and said he would talk to me at the hospital. He had to deal with the all the witnesses that saw what had happened and to get their statements.
A tow truck driver stuck his head in, asked for the keys to the car and wanted to know where to tow the car. I told him to take it somewhere towards Toronto, as that is where I lived. The lovely witnesses brought my purse and other valuables to me in the ambulance before the car was taken. Everyone was so kind.
They found my cell phone so I could call home. My husband was not home, so I had to call my daughter to come to the Milton hospital which is where the ambulance took me. By the time we got to the hospital, my blood pressure and heart rate had gone back to normal. Two hours had past since the accident had occurred.
My daughter arrived shortly after the ambulance and this angel brought all sorts of calming supplements for me. She also does various forms of hands on healing and began at once to administer them. It was a busy night in emergency department. We waited for the OPP who never showed up as he was trying to find the culprit. I felt, after all the remedies and hands on healing, that I was OK to go home. So several hours later, my daughter drove me back to Toronto as I had other remedies I wanted to take at home.
The next day, I was still somewhat in shock, so I did not get the full impact of all the soft tissue injuries until the second day. Then it hit me and I was aware of my ribs and all the pain that comes with a sideways whiplash. I have been receiving physical therapy, three times a week now and am improving in terms of the pain.
The reality of the situation is, the guy was driving a stolen car, just out of jail and now is facing four criminal charges and five highway act charges against him. He has been found and arrested. I will have to go to court in Milton at some point in the future.
So I thought it was time to write about this incident. The night before this accident, I was on the internet and saw that a friend send me a YouTube link that indicated it was a must see. So I opened it to see a very graphic car accident caused by girls who were texting while driving. It really shook me up. So much so, that I was very conscious of my driving to Kitchener that next day and was being very careful.
So this incident brings up many questions:
- If everything vibrates and I was vibrating in a fear vibration the next day, did I attract that accident to me?
- Was the fact that I opened that link, a sign – a warning for me to pay attention? Was I supposed see it as an intuition? Was I not supposed to drive the next day?
- Or, was this just another opportunity to see if I could stay present in the moment? Am I to watch the thoughts and mental distortions that come up, notice them and let them go?
- Was this a reminder to surrender to life; to face the realities of life: aging, illness and death?
- Was it a clue to see the divinity in all?
- Or was I simply in the wrong place at the wrong time…
If I am creating my reality, what is the message here? Many friends have said, maybe the message is that I need to slow down and take some time for me. Something I have a hard time doing but have been forced into through this incident.
All I can say, is that I am very grateful to be alive and there were many angels involved, as so many things that could have happened, did not. The other car hit behind me instead of right into me. I was not hit by other cars while being out of control. I have no broken bones to heal, only soft tissue which heals faster and so on.
I am very grateful for all the angels who came to see if I was alright. I am grateful for all my great family and friends who are supporting me through all of this. They are true blessings. I am grateful to continue to do what I came to planet to do; obviously it is not completed yet.
Do you have a story to share? I’d love to get your feedback. Here on my blog, you’ll get commentluv. That’s great for all bloggers out there. If you leave a comment, you can provide a link back to your own blog. But you don’t have to be a blogger to leave a comment; I’m looking forward to hearing from all of you!
My next blog will be a surprise as I am taking it easy and not pushing myself while I am healing.
Stay tuned.
Charlene












